3 Way to Grow in Intimacy – Part 3 – Living Obediently

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“Trust and obey for there’s no other way to be happy in Jesus but to trust and obey.”

 

I can still hear my Great Grandma Zwart singing the chorus to this old hymn. Little did she know she was planting a powerful truth in my impressionable heart on how to grow in spiritual intimacy with my heavenly Father. Just the other day the chorus came to mind as I was struggling with fear about taking another step of faith I sensed the Father asking me to take.

 

The last two weeks I shared the Shema from Deuteronomy 6:4, reminding us that intimacy begins with Listening to the voice of the One True Father God and next we need to make every effort to keep Looking at His unfailing love for us in His Son Jesus. But if you truly want to flourish in intimacy the 3rd step is vital, Living Obediently.

 

Hear the words of the Shema once again:

 

“Hear O Israel the LORD our God, the LORD is one. Love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul and with all your strength.”

 

That last phrase means to love your Abba Father with everything you got, which would be the Hebrew way of responding by living an obedient life.

 

I can tell you from experience that my greatest growth in intimacy has come when I have jumped off a spiritual cliff in obedience expecting the Father to catch me. He wants all of you, not just a part. He desires to be the one in complete control of every aspect of your life. When we hold any part of our life back we risk experiencing the overwhelming love and faithfulness of our Good God. He keeps calling out for us to jump into His arms, but believe me every time that first step scares me to death, but over the years He has never dropped me once. And every act of obedience has brought me to life changing experiences of His love that I would have missed if I stayed at the edge of the cliff.

 

Take a few minutes and sing these verses with me of the hymn Trust & Obey:

 

When we walk with the Lord in the light of His Word, what a glory He sheds on our way! While we do His good will He abides with us still, and with all who will trust and obey!

 

But we never can prove the delights of His love until all on the altar we lay, for the favor He shows and the joy He bestows are for them who will trust and obey.

 

Then in fellowship sweet we will sit at His feet, or we’ll walk by His side in the way, What He says we will do, where He sends we will go never fear, only trust and obey.

 

What is the Father saying to you today about Living Obediently? What is He calling you to lay on the alter or asking you to let go of? Where is He asking you to follow Him and jump? Today Trust & Obey and get ready to fall into the everlasting arms of your loving Father who will never fail those who Trust & Obey!

 

 

3 Ways to Grow in Intimacy – Part 2 – Looking

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Patty and I recently celebrated 30 years of marriage and have been reflecting on the journey together. As 21 year olds we were rather naïve about what was ahead but by God’s great grace He has carried us through the challenges along the way. One specific way that has helped us stay focused in in our marriage has been a wedding picture mounted on the wall in our bedroom-this picture has traveled with us to several states and daily greets us. It is a visual reminder of June 26, 1987, where we made a covenant before God, family, and friends that this commitment was to last until “death do us part.” The picture incites in me a variety of emotions, to “wow we were so young,” to “Patty was stunning and still is, and I had hair and it wasn’t gray.”

 

Last week I shared the first step to intimacy with the Father is to daily HEAR or LISTEN to His voice of love speaking to you as in the Shema (Dt. 6:4):

 

“Hear, O Israel, the LORD our God, the LORD is One….

The next part continues:

Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.”

 

As I look at my wedding picture it brings me back to the covenant of marriage Patty and I made and awakens my love and affection for her. The same thing happens when I take time to LOOK at God and the “pictures” of His overwhelming love for me it awakens my love for Him. Here are some key visuals to take note of:

 

  • Acts of His Love seen in Redemptive History – As I read His “Love Letter” from Genesis to Revelation I envision His passionate love rescuing His sinful people. Read the book of Hosea for another great example of this.
  • Daily reading the Gospels – Everyday I read a portion of the Gospels and as I listen and look to what Jesus has to say I remind myself this is a picture of what God and His transforming love is like.
  • Looking at Jesus during times of Communion and Baptism – Recently I got to see Jesus with a group of students in Africa where towards the end of our trip we spiritually ate and drank the love of Jesus. As we reflected back on the cross and His love poured out for us many in the room were brought to tears as His Spirit invaded hearts. Both Baptism and Communion are signs and seals of the Father’s love given to us in visual forms to help our faith to become sight.
  • Worshiping in Spirit and Truth – Also during my last trip to Africa while worshiping with the family of God, I was overcome with a vision of the Resurrected Jesus standing next to me-what incredible encouragement and healing love that brought. Worship takes us from the natural into the heavenly realm and opens our spiritual eyes to see His glory.
  • Serving the Least – If you want to grow in intimacy with God just start serving the least of these. Read Matthew 25:31-46 and practice it-you will be overwhelmed by the visual of Jesus in orphans, widows, homeless, prisoners, the needy and sick.

 

I challenge you to use these five points to help you see the Love of your God and incite a passionate love that will bring you deeper into an intimate encounter with Him.

 

3 Ways to Grow in Intimacy – Part 1 – Listening

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When searching to purchase another home the familiar saying about the importance of “location, location, location” is often referenced. In my research and study for the devotional Climbing Prayer Mountain a question I was asked was “What would be the key factors to develop Intimacy with God?” The first thought that came to mind was time, time, and time!

 

The person on earth I’m most intimate with is my wife Patty. The reason why is I have spent an incredible amount of time with her going way back to the first time she caught my eye at the tender age of 4. Developing intimacy is more than just hanging out together, to grow in an intimate relationship there are a few other things you must do as well. In growing in my intimacy with Father God I have found 3 vital truths that I must spend timing doing listening, looking, and obediently loving. Today we will look at the first one:

 

Time Listening: The Jewish people declare the Shema, (Dt. 6:4-9), 3 times a day which begins with;

 

“Hear, O Israel, the LORD our God, the LORD is one.”

 

Intimacy starts with “hearing.” Our Father is always speaking to you and His number one desire is for you to listen. Once you begin to hear His voice no other voice will come close to satisfying your soul. How the enemy knows this and therefore bombards your world with the noise of twitter, Instagram, Facebook, Snap chat, the talking heads of media as well as a host of demonic internal lies shelling your mind daily. The warfare for your ears is intensifying at a horrific speed in our technology culture. Maybe it would be good for us recite the Shema three times a day as well. These words remind us that we need to hear from the most important voice of the universe, the voice of Our Heavenly Father.

 

Several years ago I was stuck in traffic on the 91 Freeway in Southern California, ugh! I was heading to the beach to spend the day in prayer and was more than frustrated, even a little upset at God. I felt the nudge to pick up my Bible and turn to Psalm 46, which I read that morning before heading out. To redeem the time I started to memorize it and got stuck on verse 10, “Be still and know that I am God.” How ironic, I’m on one of the busiest freeways in the US, stuck in traffic, it’s extremely noisy, and I hear the Father say to me, “my son you need to learn to be still and really take time to know me in the midst of your crazy busy world.”

 

Since hearing the Father’s voice that day, not at the beach but on the 91, I’m attempting to “shut up and listen” more. I’ve found the Father has a lot to say and that He is God and I’m not. I have found out I need to have more time in His Word just to get to know Him better, not to prepare for sermons, bible studies, or blogs, but to really get to know Him and delight in His loving voice. Listening can be hard work. It means daily dying to self, saying no to other voices even good ones, and trying to keep my ADD mind focused on Him and not million other distractions. Yet, even though I feel like an infant with the art of listening, I’m starting to learn that there is One Amazing, Loving Father God, and I’m not Him, praise the LORD!

 

 

 

 

Persistently Waiting

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We live in time where we can get answers to our questions in just a few seconds. Recently driving through Wyoming my wife wanted to know how many people lived there. So she picked up her phone asked Siri and in five seconds or less she had the answer. We have grown accustomed in our technological world to the quick response. So often when it comes to our prayer life we want a quick answer from our Heavenly Father as well. So in frustration when no split second answer seems to surface we are tempted to give up on praying for it.

 

The question below was posed during research for Climbing Prayer Mountain; it is a question that I believe most of us have pondered in our prayer life:

 

How do you keep persistently praying when it feels like God isn’t answering?

 

I will touch on this in the devotional as well but since it is a reoccurring question I want to share a few more thoughts on this vital subject.

 

As you and I survey Scripture you will find that at the heart of a true follower of God is persistent waiting. In our Father God’s timing rarely do answers come quickly. Think about Noah, Abraham, Joseph, Moses, David, Daniel, Elisabeth, Anna, Jesus, Paul, etc. All of them did their fair share of persistent waiting on the promises of God in prayer.

 

Jesus explains how this works in the Father’s economy in Luke 18:1-8 in the Parable of the Persistent Widow. He begins the teaching by saying to His disciples:

 

“They should always pray and not give up.”

 

Jesus then goes on to tell about a wicked judge who was daily harassed by a widow who sought justice. This woman was as desperate as a hungry dog in her daily plea before the judge who cared less about God and had no empathy for the widow. But over time she wore the judge out and he knew the woman would never stop nagging him so he gave in to her demands.

 

The epilogue to this parable by Jesus is key as declares how much more our loving Heavenly Father will “bring justice for His chosen ones, who cry out to Him day and night? Will He keep putting them off? I tell you He will see that they get justice, and quickly, (vs.7-8).

 

Our Good Father will reward persistent waiting in His perfect timing. My Grandma Spykstra was a persistent waiter in her prayer life. Her prayer journals testify that she never gave up on impossible issues that faced her and her family. Some of her prayers were answered after she went to be with Jesus and I’m sure together they celebrate His faithfulness and her persistent waiting that showed her faith in His promises.

 

So keep persistently waiting in prayer believing your Good Father is going to act in His perfect time!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Did I Really Hear from God?

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One of the questions that frequently appeared in the survey for Climbing Prayer Mountain was “How do I know God is really speaking to me in prayer and I’m not making it up?” This is a great question which I believe everyone that seeks the will of God in prayer asks at some point.

In response to this question I’d like to give an example from my own life. Recently I was in Lesotho, Africa and a pastor friend of mine asked me to preach at his church. The problem was, I didn’t get the request until Saturday night and I lacked adequate time to prepare a new message. So, right away my mind wandered back to which previous one I may be able to reuse. But I struggled to retrieve a “tried and true message” I thought was appropriate. I had no direction or peace, so I started to pray in my spirit, “Lord what do you want me to preach?” Then Psalm 27:4: “One thing I have asked of the Lord ….to gaze on the beauty of the LORD” popped into my mind.

Why did I know this was from the Spirit of the LORD?

  1. A repeated impression: During the week Psalm 27:4 came up 3 times in unexpected ways. First of all a woman who I had a conversation with while waiting for an appointment brought it up. Second, that same night I received a text from a friend in Michigan with a picture of a license plate reading PSALM27:4. Third, on Saturday afternoon Mike Verkaik showed me a picture that he had taken at an orphanage he was visiting in the mountains, any guess what the picture was of? You’re right Psalm 27:4.
  2. “Be still and know that I am God:” To hear God’s voice it is vital that you spend time being still in His presence (Psalm 46:10). Saturday I was able to spend an extended time praying, journaling, and being quiet before the Father as I stayed back from a trip to the mountains with a sick team member. My heart had been receptive to listening to the Spirit because of time dwelling in His presence.
  3. The Living Word: Being still is important, but so is continuing to dwell in the Scriptures. The Bible comes alive through the Holy Spirit and our God uses His Word to direct our paths (Psalm 119:105). When Abba speaks it will always be in agreement with His written Word.
  4. Perfect Peace: When the Holy Spirit speaks an overwhelming peace follows (Col. 3:15). As I thought about preaching from Psalm 27:4 a peace came over me, despite the fact I had little time to prepare. I went to bed that night with peace that God would give me a word. The crazy thing was that night I had a dream that I was preaching Psalm 27:4 and key points were given in the dream that I remembered when I woke up Sunday morning.
  5. When two or three agree: Before I went to bed that night I told my friend Mike that I sensed the Holy Spirit was directing me to preach on Psalm 27:4 and I told him why, he smiled and affirmed my impressions. God has given us the “body of Christ” to help us discern the voice of God and follow it in obedience (Matthew 18:19-20).
  6. Will it bring glory to God: I have learned over the years that if God is speaking to me and calling me to follow His voice it will be about His glory and not mine (I Cor. 10:31). When the Father speaks He will call me to do things I can’t do in my strength but “His power will be made perfect in my weakness!” (2 Cor. 12:9).

As I opened my mouth that Sunday morning in Lesotho, the Father filled it with His powerful words from His heart to His children. I once again stood in awe of the mighty Voice of the Father. His faithfulness is the result when we follow it in obedience. I pray that these six points will encourage you and help you hear and follow your Father’s life-changing voice that is daily speaking to you.